For the Ones Who’ve Been Told They’ll Never Heal

I was wrong. And it’s important I say this.

For years, l shared the common belief that you never fully “heal” your core wounds—especially those of abandonment, rejection, and unworthiness. That these traumas would always linger in some form, coloring how you relate, attach, grieve, or fear.

But I can’t say that anymore.

Because in the last 12 months, I walked through a profound and deep initiation.

And I healed them.

Not just in this lifetime—but in my lineage, in my soul memory, in the karmic blueprints I once believed were permanent. I am the walking, thriving proof that it is possible to be free of these wounds.

Do I still feel grief? Yes. Anger? Yes. Sadness, irritation, heartbreak? Of course.

But those feelings are generated from the now rather than being amplified or entangled by the past.

My foundation has been rebuilt. No, RESTORED.

I don’t drop into depression anymore. I don’t lose myself in fear or spiral in self-abandonment. I don’t chase what isn’t mine, or contract into old trauma patterns just to feel loved or safe.

There are entire dimensions of suffering I no longer inhabit. They’re simply… non-existent because I loved myself enough to finally release them.

I know many people won’t believe me. That’s okay. A year ago, I’m not sure I would have believed me either.

It took everything—self-devotion at a level most people aren’t ready to choose. It took walking away from identities, relational dynamics, and seductive patterns that once felt like home. It took grieving every version of me that needed to be needed, chosen, or saved.

It took looking into the mirror of every lover and finally saying:

No more.

I choose me.

Fully.

Finally.

Forever.

For those of you out there who have been told you’ll never truly heal… I need you to know:

That’s not true.

It’s not just possible—it’s inevitable when you choose yourself over and over and over again.

I am so proud of what I’ve transmuted. I am so honored by the life I get to live now. And I trust that sharing this will ripple out in ways I can’t yet see—but I know will matter.

Because some BIG THINGS are coming.

Stay close.

This next chapter is unlike anything I’ve ever written before.

In sovereignty,
Sharon

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