Why Creativity Might Be Better Than Sex (and I’m not mad about it)

Lately, something unexpected has been happening in my body.

I’ve been in a constant state of creative flow—building, writing, designing, channeling—and I feel deeply, wholly… satisfied. Not just intellectually or emotionally, but erotically. My libido is quieter than usual. Not gone, just… at peace.

And I’ll be honest, it caught me off guard.

For someone whose work revolves around desire, erotic energy, and living a turned-on life, I’m used to having a pretty fiery inner landscape. But these days, I find myself tapping into that erotic current only when I want to. It’s not a gnawing hunger or a constant pull. It’s there when I choose it—I’m simply not needing it in the same way I used to.

Instead, I’m being fed by something else: CREATION itself.

There’s something wildly pleasurable about being in a rhythm of consistent, meaningful creation.

The rush of ideas turning into reality.

The satisfaction of building something that feels true to my essence.

The thrill of watching vision become form.

It feels… complete. Like an orgasm that doesn’t end in collapse but just keeps building into the next wave. Mmm.

And maybe that’s what surprised me most—how similar the energy feels.

Creation and eroticism.
Flow and arousal.
Fulfillment and satiation.

It’s all the same current, just expressed in different ways.

I used to think I needed to be erotically activated in order to create. That pleasure was the prerequisite to power. And sometimes, it is. But now I’m seeing the reverse can be just as true: that power, that devotion to the creative impulse, can BECOME pleasure.

This is what happens when you integrate your erotic energy so fully that it’s no longer a need, but a frequency you live in. This is what sovereignty over your desire looks like.

Not in denial of it. Not ignoring it. But letting it show up as one delicious flavor among many, rather than the main course every day.

I’m still tracking what this means. Still letting myself be surprised by how good it feels. But I know I’m not the only one craving this kind of fulfillment.

Not just pleasure for pleasure’s sake, but a life that feeds you on every level. A life where desire doesn’t rule you or hide from you—it flows through you, quietly and consistently, like breath.

So if you’ve ever wondered what it would feel like to be deeply, erotically alive without chasing your next high—this might be it. The devotion to creating, birthing, expressing. The daily choice to pour your energy into something that matters.

Turns out… that’s the sexiest thing of all.

And maybe that’s why this next creation of mine feels like such a turning point.

I signed a book deal.

Flesh & Flame is coming—and it’s a transmission of this exact frequency.

Creation as turn-on.
Power as pleasure.
Devotion as the path.

Stay close.

In sovereignty,
Sharon

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