The Edge is Where You Meet More of Yourself
You say you want change. You want the love, the wealth, the freedom. You want to feel whole, powerful, and deeply alive.
But the bridge between where you are and where you want to be isn’t built by waiting. It’s built by turning toward yourself—especially toward the parts of you that feel distant, hidden, or stretched by discomfort.
That doesn’t have to be terrifying.
We’ve been conditioned to believe that growth must be painful, that transformation is always a battle, that healing requires breaking ourselves open before we can be whole.
But what if it’s not about fighting yourself?
What if it’s about meeting yourself—with curiosity, with self-compassion, even pleasure... But most importantly with an openness to receive the parts of you that have been waiting for your attention?
The moments that activate you, the things that make you uncomfortable, the desires or fears that stir something deep in your body—these aren’t here to harm you. They’re here to show you where you are ready to expand.
But expansion doesn’t mean throwing yourself into the deep end and hoping you swim. It means learning how to hold yourself as you step forward, how to create safety in your own presence, how to trust the stretch that’s happening without resistance.
This is why self-compassion is non-negotiable.
Because when you approach your edges with softness, with patience, with the knowing that nothing inside you is wrong or broken… the process stops feeling like a fight.
It starts feeling like coming home.
When you do this work, you’re not just shifting your own life—you’re dissolving patterns that didn’t start with you. The fears, the limitations, the ways you were taught to shrink or suppress yourself… those patterns were inherited. And by choosing something different, you become the one who ends them.
But you don’t have to do it all at once.
You don’t have to force yourself through unbearable discomfort just to prove you’re growing.
Instead, you get to take this journey with yourself—one choice, one breath, one small pleasure at a time, meeting each moment with enough presence to say:
“I can hold myself here. I don’t have to run. I don’t have to push. I just have to meet what is here, and trust that I am ready.”
So what if you stopped waiting?
What if instead of avoiding your edges, you met them with curiosity and reward?
What if instead of fearing the stretch, you trusted that expansion can be nourishing, even exciting?
You are not here to abandon yourself.
You are here to bring every part of you home. And with as much fun and enjoyment as you are capable of.
And I promise—you can.
If you’re ready to stop waiting and start reclaiming every part of yourself, my 1:1 container is where we do exactly that. This is where you learn to hold yourself through the stretch, meet your edges with deep self-trust, and integrate the pieces of you that are ready to come home. If you feel the pull, reach out—I’d love to walk this journey with you. Message me or drop a in the comments, and let’s talk.
In sovereign pleasure,
Sharon
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