You Were Never Meant to Need Less—You Were Meant to Desire More

As children, many of us learned to make ourselves small. To shrink our needs. To ask for less. Not because we truly needed less—but because our nervous systems learned that less was safer.

Less meant we might get... something.

Less meant we wouldn’t re-experience the heartbreak of being ignored, denied, or punished for wanting too much (even when too much was the bare minimum).

So we learned. We adapted. We became masters at surviving on scraps—of attention, of love, of resources, of care.

But survival is not your destiny.

If this was your path, if you learned to need less in order to cope, let me tell you what’s waiting on the other side: a reality that is the exact opposite of the one you survived.

You are meant for a life of abundance, bliss, pleasure, joy, and desire—fully expressed, unapologetically claimed.

Let me bring it home: You were never meant to remain in a reality of rationing. You were never meant to make yourself small just to receive. Your path was never about shrinking; it was - IS - about remembering how infinitely expansive you are.

And now, you get to create a reality that isn’t based on need at all.

You get to dream in technicolor.

You get to stretch your desires into the biggest, wildest, most delicious fantasies.

You get to hold nothing back.

You get to want more just because it delights you—and, like any God, you get to have it.

The era of needing is over. The era of having is here.

Your journey was important. It made you the alchemist you are today. It showed you what contrast feels like, so you could step fully into the opposite—so you could take every limit you learned and melt it into something that is not confined by form.

Something boundless.

And now? Now, you get to transcend the story of need altogether.

Now, you get to take up space with your desires.

Now, you get to see your wishes granted by your own magic.

So I ask you:

What is the most outlandish, extravagant, delicious, joyful reality you can imagine?

Good.

Now allow it. It’s yours.

In sovereign pleasure,
Sharon

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